Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Sex Test

Playful couple smiling and flirting.

        Is your sex life “normal”? Do you ever wonder how well things are really going between you two?

        Unlike other so-called love quizzes, the intimate questions in our Gott Sex Quiz are designed to give you an accurate idea of the overall health and happiness in your sex life.

        Take 10 minutes and try it now!


-GOTT SEX QUIZ- 

Assessing the quality of sex, romance, and passion in your relationship!

For each item, take a pen and check the one box below that applies to your relationship right now?

1. Is the relationship 
        ☐ A. Romantic and passionate?
        ☐ B. Is it becoming passionless, that is, the fire is going out?


2. I would say that
        ☐ A. My partner is verbally affectionate.
        ☐ B. My partner is not very verbally affectionate. 

3. I would say that
        ☐ A. My partner expresses love and admiration to me.
        ☐ B. My partner expresses love or admiration less frequently these days.

4. I would say that
        ☐ A. We do touch each other a fair amount. 
        ☐ B. We rarely touch each other these days. 

5. I would say that
        ☐ A. My partner courts me sexually. 
        ☐ B. My partner does not court me sexually. 

6. I would say that
        ☐ A. We do cuddle with one another.
        ☐ B. We rarely cuddle with one another

7. I would say that
        ☐ A. We still have our tender and passionate moments. 
        ☐ B. We have few tender or passionate moments. 

8. I would say that
        ☐ A. It feels like our sex life is fine. 
        ☐ B. It feels like there are definite problems in this area. 

9. I would say that
        ☐ A. The frequency of sex is not a problem 
        ☐ B. The frequency of sex is a problem.

10. I would say that
        ☐ A. The satisfaction that I get from sex is not a problem
        ☐ B. The satisfaction that I get from sex is a problem 

11. I would say that
        ☐ A. Being able to just talk about sex, or talk about sexual problems is not a serious issue between us. 
        ☐ B. Being able to just talk about sex, or talk about sexual problems is a serious issue between us. 

12. I would say that
        ☐ A. The two of us generally want the same thing sexually. 
        ☐ B. The two of us want different things sexually. 

13. I would say that
        ☐ A. Differences in desire are not an issue in this relationship. 
        ☐ B. Differences in desire are an issue in this relationship. 

14. I would say that
        ☐ A. The amount of “love” in our lovemaking is not a problem. 
        ☐ B. The amount of “love” in our lovemaking is a problem. 

15. I would say that
     ☐ A. The satisfaction my partner gets from sex is not a problem.
     ☐ B. The satisfaction my partner gets from sex is a problem.  

16. I would say that
     ☐ A. My partner is still very physically affectionate toward me.
     ☐ B. My partner is not very physically affectionate toward me. 

17. I would say that
     ☐ A. I feel romantic toward my partner. 
     ☐ B. I do not feel very romantic toward my partner. 

18. I would say that
      ☐ A. My partner finds me sexually attractive. 
      ☐ B. My partner does not find me sexually attractive. 

19. I would say that
      ☐ A. I find my partner sexually attractive. 
        ☐ B. I do not view my partner as sexually attractive.

20. In this relationship 
        ☐ A. I feel romantic and passionate toward my partner. 
        ☐ B. I feel passionless, my own fire is going out.

21. In this relationship 
        ☐ A. My partner is romantic and passionate.
        ☐ B. My partner is passionless, that is, the fire is going out in my partner.


22. I would say that
      ☐ A. The satisfaction I get from sex is not a problem.
      ☐ B. The satisfaction I get from sex is a problem.


23. I would say that
        ☐ A. My partner compliments my appearance.
      ☐ B. My partner does not compliment my appearance. 

24. I would say that
      ☐ A. I am satisfied by how we initiate sex.
      ☐ B. I am dissatisfied with the ways we initiate sex.

24. I would say that
      ☐ A. It is possible for me to refuse sex and have it be okay.
      ☐ B. I am unable to refuse sex and have it be okay with my partner. 

25. I would say that
      ☐ A. I hardly ever have sex when I don’t want to.
      ☐ B. It seems as if I often have sex when I don’t want to. 

26. I would say that
      ☐ A. We have many ways to satisfy one another sexually.
      ☐ B. We have very few ways to satisfy one another sexually. 

27. Overall I would say that
      ☐ A. We are good sexual partners. 
      ☐ B. We are not very good sexual partners. 

Scoring:


        Count all the times you checked “A.” Divide that number by 27, and then multiply it by 100. That is your percent score. If you scored greater than 80 percent, your relationship is fine in the areas of affection, sex, romance, and passion. If you scored lower than 80 percent however, there is an issue you should be concerned about. You might want to check out our website, www.gottman.com or our upcoming Gott Sex Series, for help improving this area of your personal life.


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