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Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle: All About Conflict
Drs John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce this Gottman Relationship Coach collection, All About Conflict.
The first program, “Dealing with Conflict” teaches the basics of communication in conflict. You will learn which of the problems your relationship faces are solvable, and which you may continue to encounter. If any of these perpetual problems have you stuck, the Gottmans can help you get “unstuck” and understand each other’s perspectives. “Dealing with Conflict” helps prepare you for the regular, inevitable moments of friction that are bound to arise in any relationship.
The second program, “What to Do After a Fight” teaches how to navigate more difficult arguments and the feelings that come along with them. If “Dealing with Conflict” makes regular communication “smooth sailing,” “What to Do After a Fight” helps you address rough waters to keep your relationship from capsizing. Often, more serious arguments arise because they touch on values and beliefs one or both of you hold dear. Explore what’s underneath the storm with the game-changing exercises contained in this program.
NOTE: If you already purchased “Dealing with Conflict” or “Making Up After an Argument” individually and want to take advantage of this special offer, make sure you are logged in to your Gottman Connect account and the price difference will automatically be deducted from your purchase of the second program.
Gottman Relationship Coach: Dealing with Conflict
In “Dealing with Conflict” Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through a series of exercises, concepts, and communication skills that can truly change your conflict conversations. With these new skills, going from arguing to understanding is possible. Conflict is inevitable, combat is optional.
In this program you will learn:
- Why you keep fighting about the same things, and how to get “unstuck.”
- How to address recurring issues within your relationship.
- How to approach conflict conversations gently, in a way that addresses specific issues.
- How to identify what your feelings and experiences are around issues that are causing conflict, and how to gently bring them up with your partner.
- How to understand your partner’s side of an issue, and how to get your partner to understand where you’re coming from.
- How to examine the individual values, ideas, and beliefs that influence how you and your partner engage with the world around you.
- More about your own emotions.
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Fight Right
Fight Right, the New York Times Best Selling book from Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman and Dr. John Gottman
LEARN THE 5 SECRETS OF SUCCESSFUL COUPLES
Conflict is the top reason couples seek help—but it’s also an opportunity for greater intimacy, deeper connection, and lasting love according to this essential guide from the world’s leading relationship scientists and bestselling authors of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work and Eight Dates.
Click here for free Fight Right resources and products from the Gottmans on how to turn conflict into connection.
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Conflict is a Normal and Natural Part of Your “Happily Ever After”
Conflict in a relationship is inevitable.
How Emotion Regulation Can Transform Your Conflict Cycle
When I meet with a new couple, I always ask: How do you self-soothe during and outside ofconflict? While some … Continued
Managing vs. Resolving Conflict in Relationships: The Blueprints for Success
A look at three “conflict blueprints” to help you and your partner constructively manage conflict around unsolvable problems.
The Research: Patterns of Marital Conflict Predict Children’s Internalizing and Externalizing Behaviors Part II
It is not the child’s temperament that predicts marital conflict, but rather the type of marital conflict that predicts a child’s temperament.
Flooding and Conflict Avoidance
A good relationship includes having fights.
Manage Conflict: Moving Forward
The real predictor of a relationship’s failure is a couple’s inability to manage conflict in a healthy manner and to move forward.
Emotional Attraction: Maintaining Connection in Conflict Discussions
Conflict can result in flooding and stonewalling. However, how you repair can build emotional attraction.
Manage Conflict – Part 4
Managing conflict isn’t simply about being aware of and intentional about your thoughts and your words.