Small Things Often
Welcome to Small Things Often, a podcast from The Gottman Institute Successful long-term relationships are created through small words, small … Continued
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T is for Turning
I’ve already stated that Repair is my favorite concept in the Gottman lexicon. My second favorite concept is Turning.
Summer Romance: Turning Towards
Turning towards one another can be easy in the summer months with these outdoor activities you can do with your partner.
The Secret Ingredient to a Thriving Relationship: Turning Towards Each Other
As I’m writing this, my wife asks “Do you want to come try this?” referring to a new meal she … Continued
Turning Toward Your Partner as an Anchor
Turning toward each other goes beyond accepting each other’s bids.
Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful
When two people have been in a committed relationship for a long time, a certain sense of familiarity develops. If … Continued
What “Turning Against” Really Means
A partner who turns against bids may not be doing it maliciously. See what the real cause could be.
A Deeper Look Into Turning Away From Your Partner
Though it may not seem to make an impact on your emotional connection, the build-up of these moments can incur damage over time.
Assignment: Turning Towards
When you honor and respect each other, you can appreciate different points of view.
Turning Toward Our Children: Answering Bids for Connection
It’s about the quality of connection, not the presence of perfection.
A Deeper Look Into Turning Towards Your Partner
Here are the different ways you can “turn towards” your partner’s bids.
Turning Against Bids: A Relationship Killer
Recognizing your interactions with your partner allows you to catch and reverse toxic patterns of behavior that cause damage to your relationship.